Attitude Makeover
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By :
Stephen G
Submitted
2009-09-14 18:16:08 |
Having an Attitude Makeover is all about change. If you are prepared to embrace change and develop a better, more confident, honest and happy you, then it is very possible.
It's not just about positivity and keeping a positive outlook, it's about understanding your faults and flaws and being prepared to work on them to increase your happiness and well being.
When you decide that you are just too negative, too "un"confident or whatever traits you want and need to change, then you can begin the Attitude Makeover process.
It's Time To Choose Your Attitude
Ignorance And Unhappiness
Do you know those people who treat others bluntly, brashly or just plain rudely? Well often those people are extremely unhappy
and they make it worse by creating enemies and losing friends.
The biggest problem is they don't even know they are doing it because they are too ignorant.
Now think about yourself and wonder if there are any social parallels between you and the ignorant offensive person.
Sometimes we will get a tap on the shoulder from friends and family to tell us we need an attitude adjustment, but sometimes
no one will fill us in or even worse we can find out the hard way....confrontation.
Rude or socially ignorant people usually always end up in a heated exchange eventually and it's not a nice thing to have several people point out your misgivings at once.
Where To Start?
Find your weaknesses and aim to work on them. If you are too negative and it is driving a wedge between you and others, then perhaps you should seek positivity and actively aim to control your negative remarks.
Once you know that you're negative, then you can't act to counter your habitual negativity by constantly reminding yourself to keep a positive mindset.
Change Is Habit
Everything in the world changes, so don't be scared to develop and alter yourself with an Attitude makeover. Once you repeatedly
complete the same positive actions over and over again it will become a habit.
You can go from shy to out going, from misery to happiness, from
meek to confident.....You get the picture. Change is habit.
The power of attitude is amazing
Look Around You
It doesn't matter who you are, at some stage you will look at some one else and think "I want their life", but you should ask yourself - How different are they from you?
Other peoples successful, happy lives come about when they find their own personal solution to happiness. For some it may be wealth, for others it may be health, but you must define clearly, who you are now and how you want to become.
Get inspired by the success of others and look at how they interact and socialize, sometimes the difference between huge success and low achievement is a small change in attitude.
10 Percent
What would 10% more confidence do for you or 10% more social aptitude?
Life changes don't ever have to paradigm shifting, in fact the changes you make that take time and perseverance are the ones that will most likely last and make lasting positive impacts on your life and lifestyle.
10% change is achievable and effective, so don't be scared about impossibilities, because everyone is capable of ten percent.
The Turning Point
Sometimes life makes you fed up and you need a change. While financial and geographical changes may be out of the question, anyone can look deep inside and decide "Today's the day I'm going to change".
You don't have to wait for the turning point though, making positive life improvements can give us the strength and momentum to crash through periods of stagnation and unhappiness.
Don't wait until you get that dreaded tap on the shoulder, strengthen your faults now and be your own personal solution.
Ultimately, your attitude is like an unmolded key, waiting to be developed so you can access more of life than you ever have.
You can't give other people an Attitude makeover, but right now you can begin to give yourself one.
Attitude Makeover
The little "metaphorical" tap on the shoulder that is someone letting you know that almost everything you thought about your self and your outlook are not necessarily perceived the same way by the masses.
In other words your whole demeanor is way off base. That's the thing with people who harbor bad attitudes, they don't always know that they do - But you can bet your bottom dollar that someone will eventually do the decent thing and let them in on the know.
I Want To Change!
Nobody who omitted those 4 words ever did or will! (for the better)
You must want to wholeheartedly change the way you interact with not just others but the very nature of life itself, to totally bring your life in to line with the success and happiness that ONLY the right attitude can bring. Harness the power of attitude.
If you want to you can and will, but if you don't then...You Won't.
Make It Happen
I can't do it for you and even if I could - There's no guarantee that I would. For your responsibility to yourself is compounded by the effort and precision you put in the choices you make and respectfully live with.
In Conclusion
If the idea of change is too much then it's too much for you only, because many people make it their personal mission to see the grass on the other side of the fence and it often works out exceedingly well for their troubles.
When it's time to choose your attitude - Choose well.
Attitude Makeover By Stephen G
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